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Children / Youth and War

As Mennonite Christians we want to be age-appropriately open and honest with our children about what most specifically Jesus has said pertaining to war, as well as the entire Bible and the church in history. We believe that God's whole gospel of shalom and Jesus' life and words (which is what Christians following Christ are to be about) call us to make a positive witness in word and deed in the direction of love of enemies. This will mean listening with care and respect to the many people who believe war is the "only" and "right" thing to do. This will mean paying attention to following "God and not man" in a country that is first of all committed to winning a war.

These days, there are many Christian sources of information that encourage sensitivity to children and try to explain why it is that the US needs to be fighting Iraq. They offer prayer, activities such as "care packages" to those in the military, and the fact that "God is still God" as Christian education to children during these times. We believe following Jesus includes these activities, but goes far beyond them. Join us in reaching for God's radical, scandalous love, that pursues us at the same time.

Below you will find some resources and links you might find helpful in your interactions with children.

WEBSITES

Past "On the Line for Peace" columns (for 9-14 year olds) by Anne Meyer Byler. (http://www.mph.org/otl)

*   Articles in PDF format from July 2002 to the present written by Anne Meyer Byler and Jane Yoder-Short include activities; stories of peacemakers from long ago and more recently; and issues of international conflicts, allegiance, and living out God's way of peace in our world.

Educators for Social Responsibility: (http://www.esrmetro.org)

There are many thoughtful resources on peace-related topics available on the Teachable Moment section of this site. They are developed for school settings, but can also be helpful at home:

* For elementary age children

* For middle school age children

* For high schoolers

RELIEF AGENCIES

All Our Children: (http://www.allourchildren.org)
Sojourners writes, "In particular, we urge support for All Our Children, an alliance of relief organizations providing critical health care to vulnerable Iraqi children." Mennonite Central Committee is working with this group.

MCC Iraq Crisis Response (http://www.mcc.org/respond/rapid_respond/iraq)
For children specifically: "How does my relief kit get to Iraq?" has photos and a description of the journey.

Save The Children: (http://www.savethechildren.org)
This site has all kinds of facts about the effects of war on children.

United Nations Children's Fund: (http://www.unicef.org)
The UN had a large relief network in Iraq. The war has caused this infrastructure to disappear for the time being.

War Child: (http://www.warchild.org)
This site is about children in many areas where there is war. Iraq is not alone, unfortunately.

BOOKS
Wisdom from the Mouths of Babes

- Todd Steele

Lisa, my wife, and I were trying to explain the war to our five-year-old daughter Hope the other day. We were saying something to the effect that some people in our government thought we should solve problems with the government of Iraq by fighting with them. We explained that we didn't believe it was the right thing to do, but that many people in our country and here in Fort Wayne thought it was the only way, so President Bush was sending soldiers to Iraq to fight.

Hope's response: "Why doesn't the president just go there himself?"

Think about that response in context to the following:

At that point Jesus said, "I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children." Matthew 11:25

Pray for the children of the world, that they would retain their clarity of understanding when they reach our age, and impose it on us in the meantime.

(can be ordered inter library loan through your local library)

Classic collections for younger children (relating to peacemakers in times of war):

Walking with Jesus: Stories About Real People Who Return Good for Evil by Mary Clemens Meyer (Herald Press, 1992) (ages 5-9, some pictures, can be simplified for younger children)

Peace Be With You by Cornelia Lehn (biographies of peacemakers from 100 AD to 1970) (Faith and Life, 1980) (ages 7-12, few pictures)

Lighting Candles in the Dark by the Friends General Conference (stories of peacemakers in history) (1992) (ages 7-12, few pictures)

Ain't Gonna Study War No More: The Story of America's Peace Seekers by Milton Meltzer (excellent history of people who have refused the government's call to war) (HarperCollins, 1985) (ages 12 and up)

But Why Don't We Go To War?: Finding Jesus' Path to Peace by Susan Mark Landis (Herald Press, 1993) (great resource for parents of children 12 and older)

(fairly easy-to-read, for ages 12 through adult, from the Herald Press Peace and Justice series):

- The Way God Fights: War and Peace in the Old Testament by Lois Barrett (1987)
- How Christians Made Peace with War: Early Christian Understandings of War by John Driver (1988)
- Making War and Making Peace: Why Some Christians Fight and Some Don't by Dennis Byler (1989)

Joining the Army that Sheds No Blood by Susan Clemmer Steiner (Herald Press, 1991) (for youth)

Books on the subject "War" from the Annotated Peace Resource List for all ages.

Books on the subject "Nonviolence" from the Annotate Peace Resource List for all ages.

ARTICLES

"Conversation with Children" (Sept. 2001) by Esther Epp-Tiessen

"What do We Say to the Kids? Talking about Violence and War" (March 2003) by Anne Meyer Byler

"Pressing Questions" (about Iraq) (January 2003) By Daryl Byler

This is just a start! If you find other helpful resources that introduce our children to Jesus' way of peace, please send them on to Anne Meyer Byler for posting on this site.